Not Every Child Is Meant to Succeed in High School — And That’s Okay

There is a painful reality many South African families face but rarely talk about.

It begins when a child starts bringing home disappointing report cards. At first, parents say, “Work harder.” Then come extra lessons, pressure, frustration, disappointment… and eventually something far more dangerous begins happening.

The child slowly starts believing they are a failure.

Every year, thousands of young people in South Africa leave school without completing matric. According to South Africa’s Department of Basic Education, over 1.2 million learners started Grade 1 in 2014, but by matric in 2025 only around 778,000 remained in the system.

That means hundreds of thousands of learners fell behind somewhere along the journey.

But here is the question we should be asking:

Why do we continue forcing children to stay in environments where they are clearly struggling, when alternative opportunities already exist?

The truth is simple.

Not every child learns the same way.

Some learners struggle with textbooks, exams, and traditional classrooms — but thrive when learning becomes practical, hands-on, and connected to real life.

Yet society has convinced many parents that success only comes through finishing high school, writing matric, and going to university.

That belief is costing many young people their confidence.

At Bokamoso Farmers Academy, we believe education should adapt to the learner — not force the learner to adapt to a system that is not working for them.

Our institution exists to create opportunities for:

• Learners struggling to complete high school
• Young people who have dropped out and need a second chance
• Students looking for practical, career-focused education
• Matriculants seeking specialised agricultural qualifications

Instead of years of frustration, students gain practical agricultural skills that prepare them for real economic opportunities.

And South Africa desperately needs skilled young people.

According to Statistics South Africa, youth unemployment remains critically high, with millions of young South Africans still unable to access work opportunities.

The future will not only belong to people with degrees.

It will belong to people with skills.

The child struggling in school today could become the entrepreneur who employs others tomorrow.

The teenager failing exams today could become the farmer feeding communities in the future.

So to every parent and guardian, remember this:

Keeping a child in high school at all costs is not always helping them.

Sometimes success begins the moment we stop forcing young people down one path… and start helping them discover the path they were truly meant for.

At Bokamoso Farmers Academy, we are bridging the gap between education and opportunity.

Because not every learner needs another classroom.

Sometimes they simply need a different chance.